Best Relationship Advice "Cold December Night" Michael Bublé, 2011

by LaDena Kailing Garr, Certified Life Coach since 2011 (Your Romance Fulfillment Leader)

Fun fact, find the answer at the bottom of this email.

“Cold December Night” is the only original song on this record, penned by Bublé' and his long time co-writer Alan Chang. What did Michael’s Mom have to say about the album?

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Lyrics

Stockings are hung with care
The children sleep with one eye open
Well, now there's more than toys at stake
'Cause I'm older now, but not done hoping

The twinkling of the lights
The Santa candles fill the household
Old Saint Nick has taken flight
With a heart on board, so please be careful

The ambiance is staged, ready and waiting for something good and unexpected to come along.

Who doesn’t love the suspense of the holiday season?

It’s pure magic.

Our desire for sex is, to some degree, seasonal. Research has shown that our sexual desire and sexual activity ebb and flow throughout the year, but that there is a slight peak to this desire cycle around Christmas and New Year’s.

As a sexologist, I believe that the seasonal spike has something to do with time spent away from work and, instead, attending festive parties flowing with bubbly drinks.

by Melinda DeSeta Ph.D., Psychology Today

Lyrics

Please just fall in love with me, this Christmas
There's nothing else that I will need, this Christmas
Won't be wrapped under a tree
I want something that lasts forever
So kiss me on this cold December night

According to Musixmatch here are the meaning and themes of this song;

Meaning

The song 'Cold December Night' by Michael Bublé captures the essence of Christmas as a time for love and togetherness. The lyrics express a desire for a lasting connection, symbolized by falling in love during the holiday season, emphasizing the importance of companionship and warmth during the cold winter nights.

Themes

Love and longing

• I'll wear you like a Christmas sweater

• So please just fall in love with me this Christmas

• I want something that lasts forever

Holiday spirit and togetherness

• They call it the season of giving

• A house that's filled with joy and laughter

• The twinkling of the lights

Overcoming loneliness

• Loneliness is what I've captured

• I don't wanna be alone tonight

Moods

Love, hope, joy, celebration, nostalgia

Michael’s voice just feels like home, doesn’t it? His Christmas album became an instant classic in our home.

Lyrics

A tree that smells of pine
A house that's filled with joy and laughter
The mistletoe says, "Stand in line"
Loneliness is what I've captured

Oh, but this evening can be a holy night
Let's cosy on up by the fireplace and dim those Christmas lights

Call this a season of giving, I’m here, I’m yours for the taking

This song came into my life while I was single. I wasn’t ready to date again but this song felt safe, beautiful, magical, and all the romantic feels one hopes to enjoy during the holiday season.

Much later, when I did find real, deep, meaningful love again, the line “I want something to last forever, so kiss my on this cold December night” was even more comforting and wonderful!

Look at life with new, spiritual eyes.

My late husband, Mark Kailing, PsD, Author of “The Sacred Art of Living through Self-Mastery”
Think about this…

Do you slow down and enjoy the holiday season, especially in your romantic relationship?

If you have someone to kiss on a cold, December night…by all means please do!

Companionship and warmth have a deeper meaning in December.

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Key Take Aways
  • A house filled with joy and laughter is a gift

  • We all want something to last forever

  • Look at life with new, spiritual eyes

Fun Fact Trivia:

 “Cold December Night” is the only original song on this record, penned by Bublé' and his long time co-writer Alan Chang. What did Michael’s Mom have to say about the album?

Answer: She said it was his best record to date!

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by LaDena Kailing Garr, CLC in partnership with the late Mark Kailing, PsyD

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~LaDena, Your Romance Fulfillment Leader

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