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Best Relationship Advice "What are you doing New Year's Eve?" Harry Connick Jr.,

by LaDena Kailing Garr, Certified Life Coach since 2011 (Your Romance Fulfillment Leader)

Fun fact, find the answer at the bottom of this email.

In what year was this song first recorded?

Feel-Good Relationship Advice from the Greatest Love Songs!

What are you doing New Year’s Eve?

For those who are ready to start the new year with their sweetheart

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Read time: 5 minutes

Lyrics

Maybe it's much too early in the game
Ah but I thought I'd ask you just the same
What are you doing New Year's
New Year's eve?

Wonder whose arms will hold you good and tight
When it's exactly twelve o'clock that night
Welcoming in the New Year

Ahhhhhh…..the dreamy, jazz music intro and then Harry’s rich voice that saunters effortlessly into this arrangement, is musical perfection.

This song dares you to slow down and drink it in…

Just Brilliant Voice, arrangement, vocal styling, production ! A True American Master at his Craft!

by @LuckyCedarLane on YouTube

This song has been covered dozens of times from Ella Fritzgerald, to Donny Osmond, The Carpenters, Johnny Mathis, Barry Manilow, Bette Midler, Lee Ann Womack, Christina Aguilera, and Steve Perry, to name a few!

New Year's Eve Traditions

  • Ancient Roots: New Year festivals are ancient, with Babylonians celebrating around 2000 BCE.

  • Kissing at Midnight: A superstition from ancient times for good luck in love.

  • The Ball Drop: Inspired by England's 1830s Time Ball, Adoph Ochs started the Times Square ball drop in 1907.

  • Food & Superstitions: Eating black-eyed peas or greens for prosperity, avoiding sweeping on New Year's Day to keep luck. 

    Why It's Romantic

    • Fresh Start: New Year's symbolizes new beginnings, making it a perfect time to renew vows, set goals, and reaffirm love.

    • Tradition: Participating in rituals like the midnight kiss strengthens bonds and creates shared memories.

    • Focus on Connection: It's an opportunity to step away from daily routines and focus on your partner, whether through grand gestures or quiet moments. 

7 New Year's Resolutions for a Fulfilling Relationship

1. Set yourself up for success

2. It’s okay to put ‘Me’ before ‘We’

3. Be optimistic

4. Increase your psychological flexibility

5. Don’t be so hard on yourself

6. Do something for your partner

7. Touch more

Gary W. Lewandowski Jr. Ph.D. Psychology Today

Lyrics

Maybe I'm crazy to suppose
I'd ever be the one you chose
Out of a thousand invitations
You received

Ah but in case I stand one little chance
Here comes the jackpot question in advance
What are you doing New Year's
New Year's eve?

So many supposedly great men in history have failed in their marriages or with their children-though I strive for greatness I will not sacrifice my relationships with my family to do so.

My late husband, Mark Kailing, PsD, Author of “The Sacred Art of Living through Self-Mastery”
Think about this…

What are your favorite traditions for New Year’s Eve?

What can you share with your sweetheart, as you wrap up this year and welcome the new year, in order to strengthen your bond?

It’s not always easy to know what to say to generate deeper conversations and intimacy with your sweetheart. That’s why I’ve created 4 conversation starters to strengthen your romance.

You can get your free guide, as well as the details to the Remarkable Romance Program here: remarkable-romance-program.teachable.com/p/remarkable-romance-program

Key Take Aways
  • A midnight kiss is romantic

  • Of all of the goals you consider for the coming year, prioritize your romantic relationship!

Fun Fact Trivia:

In what year was this song first recorded?

Answer: According to Wikipedia, It was first recorded by Margaret Whiting in 1947 and first charted for The Orioles, peaking at No. 9 on Billboard's Best-Selling Retail Rhythm & Blues chart in December 1949.

Remarkable Romance Program  

Plus a free guide, 4 comfortable conversation starters to strengthen your romance

by LaDena Kailing Garr, CLC in partnership with the late Mark Kailing, PsyD

We invest in what we value the most. I help busy, overwhelmed adults in loving relationships, who feel their romantic connection has become routine, go from feeling taken for granted and emotionally distant to experiencing exciting intimacy, deeper connection and romance fulfillment.

This transformation ensures they thrive with support, enduring romantic expression, and enriching their overall life satisfaction.

 

The Remarkable Romance Program (online course via video lessons)

Love is the greatest adventure!

~LaDena, Your Romance Fulfillment Leader

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