Fun fact, find the answer at the bottom of this email.

This song had the most plays on American radio for 22 years! Which song took over this record in 2019?

We had a love, a love you don’t find everyday

For those who need to reignite the fire!

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Lyrics

You never close your eyes anymore
When I kiss your lips
And there's no tenderness like before
In your fingertips
You're trying hard not to show it, baby
But baby, baby, I know it

You've lost that loving feeling
Oh, that loving feeling
You've lost that loving feeling
Now it's gone, gone, gone

Oh, the aching and the longing in this beautiful love song is exquisite. It’s timeless qualities include an escalation, a swell of rich sounds, that stirs the soul.

Lyrics

Now there's no tenderness in your eyes
When I reach for you
And girl, you're starting to criticize
Little things I do
It makes me just feel like crying
'Cause baby, something beautiful's dying

In an article in Psychology Today called “5 Ways to Rekindle the Spark in a Relationship” Andrea Wachter LMFT shares;

1. Remember and Re-experience

Remember those early days of dating? Recall the sweet times you’ve shared together and focus your attention on your partner’s positive and endearing qualities so you can re-experience the feelings that you felt in the early days of dating.

2. Listen Attentively

If your partner initiates a conversation, whenever possible, stop what you’re doing and make eye contact with this person you once adored. As they share their thoughts and feelings, truly focus on what they have to say.

3. Inquire Deeply

Practice asking your partner about their day or seize the opportunity to inquire more deeply if they voluntarily share something about themselves, even if it’s about a topic you don’t personally relate to.

4. Remain Respectful

Take an honest look at the way you speak to your partner, particularly when you’re stressed, frustrated, angry, tired, or depressed. The tone we use and the words we choose can have a profound impact (both positive and negative) on the quality of our relationship. It’s extremely important that we manage our emotions. This requires self-awareness, self-control, commitment, and maturity.

5. Stoke the Fire

You could plan a special date night or initiate a spontaneous slow dance in the living room. You could leave your smartphones at home and discover a new hiking trail or restaurant. Silence the phones and play a board game or reminisce about some wonderful memories. Put a love note in an unsuspecting place, give your partner an unsolicited massage, light a few candles in the bedroom and play a song from your dating days. Share fantasies, give a compliment, or express appreciation. Shake up your routines, be creative, be playful, be open, be kind.

Lyrics

Baby, baby
I get down on my knees for you
If you would only love me like you used to do
We had a love
A love, a love you don't find every day
So don't, don't, don't let it slip away

Bring back that loving feeling

Think about this…

Do you have the kind of love you don’t find everyday?

If so, how to you treasure it and keep it a top priority?

It’s not always easy to know what to say to generate deeper conversations and intimacy with your sweetheart. That’s why I’ve created 4 conversation starters to strengthen your romance. You can get your free guide, as well as the details to the Remarkable Romance Program available now: remarkable-romance-program.teachable.com/p/remarkable-romance-program

Key Take Aways

• Try to engage with one another the way you used to when you wanted to win their attention and affection

• The energy shared between a couple is so important, try and elevate the words, actions, and touch every time you interact

• Growth brings happiness, excitement and other positive experiences

Fun Fact Trivia:

This song had the most plays on American radio for 22 years! Which song took over the record in 2019?

Answer: “Every breath you take” by The Police

Love is the greatest adventure!

~LaDena, Your Romance Fulfillment Leader

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